Seems like Tom is simmering down or I am adjusting to the change? I think he is accepting and adjusting too....... It's hard to tell. What he knows and accepts one day or moment is forgotten the next.
What I do know is he is obsessed with trapping..... He has no clue about not having $$ for everything he wants....He just wants it and if I don't give or get it for him he thinks I'm being mean to him....(child mentality?)
He thinks I know everything and can do anything....... I was with recently while he set a trap.... I have NO CLUE what he was doing..... he was fumbling like he didn't have a clue either..... He started yelling at me ???????
Later we discussed how hard it is to trap.....and how I won't get him all the stuff he needs..... on and on and on..........I listened and agreed to everything he said.. I'm mean...I'm bad..... shame on me for being such a mean MOM.....
Than I got to talk..... he was surprised .....shocked even... to find out that I don't know anything about trapping... He really thought I knew everything and I was just being mean......He says.."well that explains it...I'm sorry... but I thought you knew everything"
He was even surprised to find out that I don't know EVERYTHING ????? So I explained how I like to go with to WATCH and TAKE PICTURES but I don't want to help set traps because it's too hard for me. That's a big guys job! He so agreed.
It's still touch and go as we continue to adjust his meds and adjust to the change......
It's almost funny when he has a light bulb moment........a glimpse of the real world before he fades back.
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